It Only Has to Make Sense to You

How many of you have daydreamed about doing something else for work than you are doing at this very moment? 

🤔 Make art instead of slide decks?

🤔 Build cabinets not spreadsheets?

🤔 Take off for 6 months to travel instead of attending 6 hours (or more) of meetings today?

😨 Leave this extremely #distressingjob NOW - instead of suffering through months of indecision?

Why don't you just do it?

I get it. There are many good reasons - money, family, time and more.

But there is another HUGE reason many of us stay stuck doing something that pains us:

  • We don't trust ourselves to make a good decision.

  • We don't believe we can handle the change.

  • We believe others will judge us.

All variants of the same thing:

Lack of self-belief, also known as SELF-AUTHORITY.

So what does self-authority look like? Many things! These are just a few:

⚡ Deciding not to look perfect (make up, tight clothes) for someone else if you don't feel like it.

⚡Speaking up if you need something to be different - haircut? relationship? a work responsibility?

⚡ Taking your own experiences seriously. Something feels off or bad to you? Pay attention. It does NOT have to be "that bad" for you to decide to separate yourself from a situation.

It only has to make sense to YOU.

Where are you already doing this?
Where are you needing help claiming it at work?

Get your free 30 min session for help.

#careerchangecoaching #confidence #selfauthority

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